Hey all, if you’re a column reader, and enjoy any kind of relationship features, please take this survey. It’s a really great way to procrastinate doing other things. I am a gay woman in my mid-30s ...

This letter writer says her partner still talks to her ex, and is too independent, too autonomous. Are they a bad match?

On a bright, sunny day at Mills College in Oakland, California (better known as occupied Huichin), We Rise co-creators Cat & Nicky joined queer pop singer songwriter Be Steadwell and the exceptional ...

My first marriage, in my twenties, to a funny, handsome lawyer wasn’t perfect. My ex made major decisions without telling me, taking a job in a city I hated, planning vacations to beaches or mountains ...